Alexander Piotrowski, Ph.D.

Freedom, responsibility, and belonging have been central themes in my life: acting with self-determination and trusting one’s own experiences, rather than relying on the perceived authority of others.

My training in person-centered psychotherapy, nonviolent communication, and emotion-focused couples therapy has helped me in this journey. I continue to deepen my expertise through regular training with different couples therapists such as David Schnarch, Leslie Greenberg, and Esther Perel. I am currently immersing myself in NARM, an approach to therapy that makes it possible to release the effects of early attachment patterns.

For the last 10 years, I was co-owner of SOCIUS, an organizational consulting firm, where I supported teams on their journey toward self-organization and helped them navigate emotionally challenging situations. I have worked with organizations such as Doctors Without Borders, the German Red Cross, the European Parliament and major international foundations..

I enjoy meditating and have a deep interest in grounded spiritual teachings, such as those of Michael Singer in yoga and Rupert Spira in non-duality. For me, being grounded means the ability to remain calm in the face of adversity, to remain capable of action even in difficult situations, and to fully embrace reality.This also shapes my understanding of couples therapy. For me, it is a journey of development that fosters individual growth and strengthens the bond between partners. It empowers people to break out of limiting patterns, promotes self-care, and encourages proactive behavior.

Accordingly, my couples therapy is about taking personal responsibility and staying open to relate to yourself, the world and your partner with more love and understanding.

And I know the pain of separation all too well. My first marriage ended after 10 years. I’m now remarried and have two fascinating children who remind me every day that life is full of surprises – sometimes as early as 6 a.m..